Fishing For Women With A Wingman
By Datelink staff
Want to pick up women? Get a friend to help you out! First, stand or
sit a few feet away from a woman or group of women and seem to be having
a light-hearted, joking disagreement with your pal. Youre
wrong! No, you are! Im telling you, you
dont know what youre talking about! Then keep talking,
but a little quieter so that the girl probably wont hear, then say,
Fine by me! Remember, dont act really angry, act like
a couple of friends jokingly disputing a small thing.
Now, go up to the woman you like (if shes with a friend, either
your buddy can try to pick up her friend or he can play wing man and keep
the friend occupied while you hit on your babe) and say, Excuse
me, but were trying to settle a bet and we really need your help.
We have agreed to let you settle the argument, and well abide by
whatever you say. Now youve really got her attention, because
shes dying of curiosity to know what the bet is, and shes
flattered that youre putting her in charge of casting the deciding
vote for the argument. Then ask something like, Ok, my buddy here
says Marsha was the oldest daughter on The Brady Bunch, but I know she
was the middle one. Your pal can jump in here and say, No
way! You dont have to use The Brady Bunch, just pick some
show that was a huge hit within the last 20 or 30 years that people still
talk about and joke about, and thats still played in reruns on TV.
Dont pick anything obscure go for something that everybody
knows the answer to. Other choices might be shows like Cheers,
and you can bet that Norm was the name of the postman, while your friend
thinks it was Cliff. Just pick something that for your age group and where
you live, everybody is going to know the answer. If you pick a current
show it wont work as well, because it will seem like a set up if
you dont know the name of the biggest star on the biggest hit show
on air now. But people do jokingly argue about things in older shows,
and the nostalgia value of a show you loved growing up can get you
and the girl you want laughing at the memory.
So now shell say something like, I hate to break this to
you, but your friend is right. Marsha was the oldest daughter. Act
a little shocked or let down, like, Ah man! Are you sure? Well,
all right, a bets a bet. It looks like Im the one buying the
next round, you say this last part to your friend, making sure to
smile and shake your head, maybe patting him on the shoulder real
friendly and casual. The womans probably laughing about the whole
bet over a cheesy TV show but that means shes also entertained
and enjoying herself. Now turn back to the woman and say, Thanks
for helping us out, we couldve argued that all night. Seriously,
we are that crazy! Let me pay you back, what are you drinking? When
she tells you and you order the drink, say, Do you mind if we join
you? Since youve already made her laugh with your funny bet
and youve bought her a drink, she wont refuse a seat at her
table. Make very sure that while youre arguing the point
with your friend before you talk to the woman in the first place that
you dont mention specifically what the bet is about someone
else may overhear and jump in to offer the answer, blowing your plan.
The great thing about this conversation starter, though, is it can work
lots of places it doesnt have to be a bar. You can do this
in a coffee shop and offer to buy a cup of coffee, you can do this in
a fast food restaurant and say you owe the pal a beer or a coffee, then
ask the ladies to join you (this may mean moving on to a coffee shop or
bar, which is just fine!), and you can even do it in a park. There youd
say the bet was for a drink or snack of some sort from a street vender
(if there is one in the park), or that you were heading to the coffee
shop around the corner, and get her to come, too.
The next question is, now that youve got a hottie sitting down
with you for a drink, what do you say next? Check out Conversation
King for step-by-step guidelines on how to keep the conversation
flowing and bag your babe!
This article generously provided by Datelink
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