Ok, youve probably heard that Laundromats are great pick up places,
better than a singles bar thats because they are! Maybe not
better, but certainly a great alternative thats just as good. You
can pretend your entire motive is to wash clothes, and that youre
not on the make. The woman wont have that feeling like youre
just trying to pick her up if you strike up a chat here even if
thats exactly what youre doing!
What really helps you out here is that women like to talk, and they love
to give advice especially to helpless men! First of
all, pick a good Laundromat meaning one where youve seen
lots of attractive women who arent dragging a bunch of kids with
them or wearing wedding rings. Basically, pick one in a neighborhood with
lots of young, single women theyll be using the Laundromat
close to home. And dont worry if you already have a washing machine
at home, its worth the trip out and a little change to meet women!
If you meet someone that eventually makes it back to your place and discovers
you have a machine at home, just tell her it was broken, or better yet,
be honest and say you went to the Laundromat hoping to meet someone, and
that was the best decision you ever made because you met her.
But lets back up, first youve got to meet her! So go to the
Laundromat with your basket of clothes no detergent. Make sure
you dont bring anything a woman might find disgusting like
really dingy, holey underwear, badly stained
T-shirts, or socks that used to be white but now look like you walked
through mud in them. However, something slightly stained wont hurt
like a grass stain on your jeans or chocolate sauce on a shirt.
You can use this later to help with the conversation
Go in, plop your laundry basket down on a machine near one or more ladies
you wouldnt mind picking up, and start digging through the basket
like youre looking for something. Then say out loud to yourself,
Oh, man, I forgot the detergent! Laundromats usually have
a vending machine selling detergent, so go over and start browsing. Act
like you dont know which one to pick, then go to the woman you want
to chat up and say, Excuse me, they dont have my regular detergent
here and I dont know what to use. Can you help me pick one out?
Women cant resist an opportunity to give advice, and they love the
idea that men might be helpless when it comes to some chores, like laundry.
This is where, if youve got the grass stain or whatever, you can
bring that up and say you dont know what to do to get it out. She
may come over and show you how to rub detergent on the stain, etc. After
you get the detergent, go back to your machine, fumble around, and go
back to her and say, Im sorry to keep bothering you, but these
machines are different than what Im used to and I dont know
what setting to use. Could you give me a hand? Im sorry to seem
so helpless. Milk the helpless bit for all its worth. Ask
her how much detergent to use, what colors you can wash together, and
what temperature to set the water at whatever you can think of.
Also, if the Laundromat doesnt have a vending machine for detergent,
ask the woman if you can borrow some of hers. Insist on paying her back
by paying for her washing or dryer use. Either way, once youve got
her talking, keep chatting about clothes as long as that stays interesting
once it starts to get lame and boring, ditch the topic! Make sure
and introduce yourself and get her name, then start asking her about herself.
Find out where she works, what she does for fun, what movies or bands
she likes, what her favorite types of food are. You can use that info
as shes packing up her clothes to leave Say, Thanks
so much for the help. Id love to pay you back by taking you out
for some Italian food (or going to hear that band you like, or see that
movie you said youd been dying to see.)
And one last thing, be ready with an explanation of why youre using
this particular Laundromat if its not in your neighborhood, just
in case she asks. Make sure you pick one thats not too far from
home, and just say the one in your neighborhood was full and you didnt
want to wait for a machine. Now grab some change, a pile of dirty clothes,
and get ready to bag that babe!
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